I fully understand your feelings towards your W...I have the same ones for my W as well. I don't like the person my W has become either. The only difference is that anger/resentment has been peppering my mind of late. I try to keep away from these emotions for the sake of my kids, but it's tough.
I see limboland ending for the both of us very shortly.
-LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009