i still have no clue how i'm going to work things. i haven't even had a chance to process and figure it out with him leaving msgs.

wouldn't it be jumping the gun to say something to the effect if we had a chance counseling is required? he hasn't mentioned anything about it.

maybe something to the effect of:

im sure that not seeing d2 is tough on you, but you have not become a trustworthy person to warrant unsupervised visitation. i have not seen guinine respect and support for us either. i'm sorry you feel i am a witch, think i'm all that and feel i hate you. when you demand i do something or else, you cause undo stress on me which is NOT healthy for the baby.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline