Where in the world did that come from !!!

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I guess that's not really what I wanted to hear bluerain, but I guess it's something I have to Man up to, the fact that whatever I do it might not turn her head. I know life will go for both of us on no matter what, but the plain fact is I want our lives to go on together more than anything.

Sandi, no we're no under the same roof and haven't shared a bed for 6 months.

It is ironic though, that she dropped the bomb as we were about to start ML.

I guess I'm like most people out there, W never said anything was wrong or missing, so I, being the dumb bloke that I am, assumed all was OK

We went to a MC 3 weeks ago, W finally agreed because I guess I nagged her into it. She said up front to me that she would go but just to say "It's Over" to the MC. I told her that that's fine, we should not go there and lie to each other or MC. That's exactly what she did after we went thru the obligatory "what was your parent's marriage like" etc. MC promptly asked me if I thought we should switch to Separation Counselling rather than MC. Kind of really took me by surprise and disappointed me to say the least.

Next session (and remember we're from a small town) could only get into at 1:30pm. Told W 3 days before when it was on and that I hoped she could make it. She texted on morning to say that "I won't b there today". Maybe she was too busy at work (I know they are flat out all the time), but I went by myself anyway and it was a good session.