but it turns out I had been overpaying her by almost $500/month. Her lawyer looked like a smacked ass as he started by saying I should have been paying $1000/month more!
I which I could have been a fly on the wall watching all of that. So, will she have to repay you for all that generous support you overpaid her? I think it is just funny the way it came back on that lawyer.....
Sweetie, you knew that it was probably going to be 50/50 custody, so try to accept it the way you have been doing with other things......and refuse to let it beat you down into the ground. You can be the best dad giving his 100% even in a 50% custody arrangement. Before you know it, those kids will be at the age they can say which parent they want to live with. At least that is in some states.
I wanted to drop by and wish you a Merry Christams to you and your two little guys. You have described them so much that I can almost see them in my mind. I am really praying that 2010 is going to make a huge difference in your life.....for the better, I might add. You deserve it and you have dealt with a lot of pain this past year, but overcame like a trooper. I am proud of you and know these others are too.
So...what are your plans for New Years Eve?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
