Absolutely, only you can make that assessment. That said, look into it. Just like curing an illness, the first step is to know what you are dealing with.

All the signs are there. I would love to be wrong.

Having had a DB coach and a cheating wife, I would tell you, save your money until you know what you are up against.

Me 44 She 46
S13 D9
M18 T23
3 years DB'ing
Successfully busted