Well, what I want doesn't seem to matter. Wife has set a timeline. I talked with her today and she says she's ready to move on either way. She said she won't got to counseling and won't start dating me because I've refused to remove OW from FB. She said, unless something groundbreaking happens tomorrow, she's going to see her lawyer on Monday and file for divorce as she's not getting any younger. She stated that she's not going to pay for what she has done for the rest of her life and doesn't intend on being alone. She also said she doesn't know if she can trust me.
You asked what I want. I want my wife back but without the attitude that she has. How can one act in this manner after doing all they've done? I don't get it.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!