Thanks Sandi, you are the gem....I am just a simple guy that did not figure things out until it was gone....I almost choked when I read your post, because all day I have been thinking that I just need to let it go.....If she comes back, she does, if not there will be better times ahead.....It is amazing what you have posted.....
I am going to start building a new beginning......As you say, it would be nice if ex wants to join in at some point, but if not, I have got to make myself happy....I love her and still want to finish what we started, but I can't make her feel something she does not feel....Someday I believe she wiil realize, but I just hope it is not too late.....She seems to be softening some, so I am going to just let her work on things for awhile......I will leave her alone and let her fight her battles....No more being there to protect her....
Sandi, thank you so much.....I will keep posting and please keep giving me the advice I need....