Sandi's Place

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I have been trying to keep up with you. Find you more or less.

I put my boundary in place last night. Real scary more for me. W did not like it. broke Dark to do so. W and I really haven't talk in a while but did for a bit last night. There were some tears, some laughs an a couple of hugs.

After reading (Ithink) your original stich, out od curiousity, I got the 2 ebooks "Womens Infidelity I & II

I am reading, and half way thru ebook I

WOW, I had no idea. This this work for you.

Should I try to get W to read them.

My wife was similiar to you with EA 'cept W went PA.

She says she is not pursuing R with him, just a friend but wanted to try the other side.

he said she did it because I was abusive verbally (and I was), we did not do much together (and we didn't), and she thought I was having an A (which I am not), she does say she knows that now.

She stated she wants to go back to IC; her C is a pro M C.

She says that she still does not know what she wants, and that our home is a source of pain for her.

She told me that the physical part of our marriage was great. No prob's there she says, just drifted apart.

Do you think those books will work on her like you said they worked on you?

I am drawn to you S2... I do not know why, but after the son 2x4, I just feel like you are my much needed help.

I was going to wait until after the holidays to set a tough boundary, but you put in my face like no other... Thank you, I feel empowered now.

I will continue to look for you...

Thanks for being here for soooo long, I feel like you were waiting just for me!