If you throw away the undies, never admit it! My mother was a strong enforcer of appropriate clothing. Anything sent to the wash that she didn't like disappeared. And she never admitted to knowing a thing about it. It's a technique I sometimes use around here too. But don't admit it, you may as well just wrestle her for the panties now if you are going to admit it later.
Lotus, (sorry for highjacking your thread Hope)
Thanks for this advice. My W too has a pair of those "OM Panties" that bug the hell out of me also. When My W had her ‘fling’ with the OM it was in Santa Cruz Ca. She had the nerve to bring son and I back some souvenirs from her trip to see “her girl friends” I know it is childish but those souvenirs have disappeared from our house and if Santa Cruz were to slip into the ocean I would not miss it. As for the panties... they are still in her drawer. And I will let them stay there until the day this marriage is recommitted to then they too will “disappear”
Hope4us you are doing great buddy. I kind of feel I am right behind you in this journey. The New Year will be here soon…
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
