Oh, I forgot to mention the MC. If she is willing to "work" at the MR geting better....and you get a pro-marriage counselor, then it might help. But, if there is OM in the picture..anywere....it won't work. She must be ready to go to work...or she'll simply find reasons to leave you. That is the problem with so many C's, they will endorse what the WAW is wanting to do.....leave. Be very careful who you choose.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
