Having a hard time trying to be unavailable.I keep allowing myself to be drawn back . I keep thinking my sitch is different from everyone elses because my wife Seems to enjoy my company, (working out with me , going to lunch-dinner,movies,church, etc...)She even is cuddling in bed. But i have made NO relationship talk at all (even though it's eating me up as to what she's thinking, planning, doing).! I have not tried to be physical other than an arm or neck massage. If you've read my story you'll know that she said she's not sexually interested in me . The advice on this board has been consistant; be unavailable, less predictable, GAL,no R talk and make her want me again. I'm trying to do a few things on my own but it's been so long since my single days and honestly it's not fun alone . Please keep the wisdom coming and the motivation!!