Aver, are you choosing to go dark or to maintain monthly contact? I guess I'm confused! Remember that NC will help you to detach a lot easier than C.

Last edited by newmama; 12/19/09 10:55 PM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004