You didn't say what you answered, but I hope you were vague. Let him wonder. Keep all other pressure off him. Don't be surprised if he starts paying more attention on the home front from now on.
Did you tell him about holding off the kids phoning him for a week?
EDIT: Oh, and one more thing... I WOULDN'T have said a word about going out last night. I'd have waited for him to bring it up. From now on you don't owe him any explanations on where you are and what you are doing. He's checked out of the house...
Last edited by Gnosis; 12/19/0909:59 PM.
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