Hi Bob, As you hold on tight right now to all the patience you have, know my heart and support continue to go with you!
As painful as this is, your ability to stay distant and be very sensitive toward giving her space is amazing! Your attractive qualities have brought her closer to you. And you are maintaining calm when she backs off.
I am wondering if you have given her any sense that you are accepting the D and are moving on? Or does your W believe you will always still be there for her? Have you given her any reason to wonder if she may lose you?
Laurie, Divorce Busting Coach Contact The Divorce Busting Center at 303-444-7004 or 800-664-2435 if you would like to schedule a telephone consultation with a DB Coach - or email virginia@divorcebusting.com for info.