Hope and heartache

[motherof3]

A lot of it comes down to I really want a second chance to see -- now that I've learned how I contributed to the discontent -- if we can do it right.

I just won't be able to understand why I didn't get a second chance.

CTH - I so badly want this too. Just be prepared that it may or may not happen. And sad to say the understanding may never come either. But right now I still have hope I just don't know how long this hope will last.

IMO, pursuing. You initiated a non-kid related convo. However, if she doesn't retreat after that then good for you in connecting to her in a non-threatening way.

I agree with Mishka. Text = pursuing.

I don't know how much more she can retreat. We NEVER talk about anything other than the kids any more.

Same as my sitch. We NEVER talk about anything other than the kids either. I keep waiting for H to initiate a non-kid related comment or conversation. So far it hasn't happened.

Have a good weekend CTH.