my W doesn't regret her affair

[BeingMe]

S could've heard W speaking over the phone to someone. Best to say as little as possible, but the truth.

I just don't know what you could tell W, if you speak to her. This was all her choice, and she's not liking the consequences and trying to blame you.

Perhaps, if you get to a point where you could ask her anything, then ask her if she can see the pain she has put the children through, with her A? How much destruction she caused to a family that could've been redeemed? She wanted time, but on her terms. Did she think that you were just going to roll over and let her kick you while you were already down? Her body knows her guilt, even if her mind justifies it. All you can and could do is react the best you can for yourself and the children in response to her betrayal (which was a betrayal to her children too because their security in a loving family has been compromised and they don't "just get over it"). You see this all over the site.

I surely feel for you because either way you go, you are damned. So, you may as well get the best for yourself and the kids. She is probably getting over the A, hence the loss of weight.

Just some thoughts.