feel like giving up - talk to me!

[S.T. _I Made It!]

I know it's hard. This is the worst thing a person can go thru besides probably losing a child. I know how it feels, and so do we all. We've all been in this hurt, and that's why we want to help you. But this lands in YOUR lap, not ours, not h's, not anyone, but you.

you get to choose how to react and how to make your sitch better, or dwell on it and make it worse. we want you to make it better. we all have hope for your M, and for those of us who have gone all the way, we KNOW how wonderful your M can be, but it depends on you.

Unfortunately, your H isn't the one on this board. you are, so you are the one with the reigns.

I'm glad your still here, and I'm glad your still listening. Start making lists for us, and if you can, write them out and go over them everyday. People who have goals that dont write them down, generally do not achieve them. it might feel stupid, but write them down.

we all love you and want the best things to happen for you, and that's why we are hard on you and honest with you.

what steps are you going to take next. I think it would be good for us to keep you accountable. G always has really good things he tells you...keep writing down those goals and how you worked on them that day.

you can do this, I promise.