Dont ignore the warning signs (warning, Im venting

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Understood, Im not perfect. But when did my wife ever talk to me to express any problems? NEVER! But I have never hurt her, cheated on her or anything else like that. Tried to be a good husband and thought we were happy. Worst offense is that I took her for granted. I recognized that. That will never happen agian, I guarantee that.

Never realized my marriage was in a downfall. That is the problem. She never said anything to me. Just dropped the bomb. I did ignore some signs hence my post. The part about her moving into my Sons old bedroom should have been a wake up call for me but I accepted her excuse. That was my fault.

I am already working on my faults. Rest assured of that. Mostly little things but thinks I can change.

This divorce and her not loving me anymore has opened my eyes as others have said. Not to just her but also myself.

Did a lot of soulsearching and reading. Even asked her what I could improve. She still insists that it's not me, it's her.

I understand that there are no winers in divorce. Both sides are victims to an extent. But my OP was not to blame her 100%. It is what I said earlier, simply venting and warning others of some of the signs I refused to see.