my W doesn't regret her affair

[motherof3]

Wow. You certainly didn't expect that to come out of S8's mouth. You handled it well. I wouldn't read anything into what he said. Who knows at what point your W and son had this conversation. At this point I think this type of discussion needs to stay between you and W. Involving the kids at this point is harsh. It is my opinion that when the kids are told about the sitch, both you and W should be present.