Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[Day by Day]

I am afraid of having to do the divorced parent shared access to your kid deal.

This is a big fear of mine too. After looking through all the paperwork of the parenting plan, I hate it. I don't like a schedule on the kids' time and the times that I won't be with them. They will want to be with their friends and be subject to whether he wants to let them go or not. But I know it has to be fair to H as well to spend time with them. They need to spend time with him too.

Don't know where I was going with this. Just wanted to commiserate. It's tough.