Go make yourself a nice cup of tea. You deserve one. It is ok to show your frustration and hurt. Your children will support you as well.
Just remember the other side of DB'ing. Standing strong for yourself. And during this rough day. Check back in a few times. You have many people here who care about you but do not post. And those who do will walk with you through this hard day.
The stick of Plan A
Exposing adultery where it matters most. Exposure that takes the form of a swift and sudden unexpected tsunami of truth.
Not appologizing for exposure or speaking the truth in a kind yet direct way.
Directly communicating the hurt and devastation that the affair has caused.
Not accepting blame for the infidel's choice to become adulterous.
Let the consequences of adultery and infidelity fall freely upon the heads of the adulterous.
Establishing boundaries that disallow the affair to effect children of the marriage, financal security of the marriage, and otherwise ruin innocent bystanders.
Standing up to infidelity as a beast that must be slayed for the good of the family.
