Pls help--confused and fearful

[Day by Day]

Now are YOU going to see WAH when he gets the kids?

I've tried that for so long and it didn't work. Now I don't want to see him because he's going to give me the property taxes to pay. He wants to keep hurting me.

I guess I have observed that you don't want this divorced life, but you have been starting to live it, so does that make it less of the "unknown" and less scary? It doesn't make it okay, just "doable."

Yes, less scary and doable.

Please share the details! How long was she gone? Why did she do it? What did her BH do differently? Did they have contact?

Don't have much details. She just said once she saw how he was trying and saw the changes were real, then she was willing to give it a try. She mentioned that piecing is very, very hard and she's having a hard time with his touching and affection towards her. That he is "so in love" with her and she's pushing back. Funny how she is on Tiger's side and says he should be given another chance.