I agree about contacting or confronting OM about anything, SD. There's nothing good to come from that. He's not worth your time.

Early in my sitch I attempted to sit down and write an Email to the OM, who I had thought was my friend. When I tried to do so I realized I had nothing constructive to say, and soon after realized it was because the person I was dealing with had lost all sense of decency. There was nothing to reach or reason with.


Age: 28
Wife's Age: 28
Relationship: 10 Years (dated on and off)
Married: Less than one year
Seperated: 1.75 years, finally served with D 4/30/2011