I know you don't see it, but I see lots of positives. You just stay on your path, keep taking care of business and yourself. No more R talk after this, let your L handle things.
I see regret from your H, and if he finally actually talked about what the problems were...well, I say that's a good thing. Especially since you "heard" him.
Go ahead and cry if you need to, then get up and get busy. You're going to be okay.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
