sandi2 I am new to this website and have enjoyed your posts and am looking for some advise. I have a situation that is some where between WAW and a MLC. It has escalated very fast. I have ordered the DR and it can't come fast enough. I realize that is for me to read not her. I have already made some mistakes based on reading this website. Which has escalated things rapidly. She now is very close to moving out which I have reused to do.I got the "I am not physically attracted to you". This is what she is struggling with the most. How do you get the passion back. I think she would reconsider staying if she could figure this out. Is there any dvds or books on this site that you could recommend for the 2 of us, or for her to read that might help? If you want to read my situation read post #189780. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance