The Wall starts to fall

[optimist]

She told me that she had gone to Johnnie’s Hideaway (a local singles bar that caters to the late thirties to mid fifties crowd) the other night and just sat and watched the Tennessee / Georgia football game. She said she did not talk with other guys altho several did approach her and seemed disappointed that she did not go home with them. She asked me if I was upset with her for doing that. I told her no - and hoped that she had had a good time. She also talked about the upcoming sister trip cruise. She said that this would be the first cruise without me and wanted to know if I was upset that she was going on the cruise. Again I said that I think the sister trip is very good and I hope she will have fun.

Sorry you are down. But I actually find it encouraging she is asking you those questions. You know her better than I do, but often when we ask questions like those we are asking for reassurance. Remember the questions about weight? If she did not care about what you thought of her dating or going away she would not be asking those: she'd be telling you.

So, the answer to those questions in female speak is:'Honey I am glad you are enjoying yourself but I sure miss you and wish I had been on that bar to flirt with you myself'

I know, we do not make sense