Wow Hope,
You are a great H! Paying attention to all those things your wife likes... good for you! I would love it if my H was like that! I could so relate when you said... "when does it happend that the WAS says... I f'ed up what I can do for you?" I can tell that is still a long way away. I can tell H is still in the fog in some ways... I don't think he is noticing much about me yet. Hopefully that will come.
We had a "little" incident last night... or first blow out since reconciling. I posted it on the newbie forum hoping to get some input cuz I was really upset last night. You can check it out and I'd love your feedback since you are a vet at piecing. smile