Marc gave me the scoop on why Gabe showed up yesterday without asking me. He had driven the broom to her son's 'mommy and me' breakfast at his elementary school. Our city is between the city Gabe and the broom live in and the city her son lives in. It was convenient for him to just come hang out here with Marc until he had to go back and pick her up. It wasn't about spending time with Marc really.

Oh well, I was so hoping it was an indication that he was becoming more proactive in making sure he did more with our son. His loss. Marc is a wonderful kid with a big heart.

On another note, he keeps sending me joke texts which are very funny but I'm not responding to him about them at all. I don't want to encourage the behavior by making comments about them so hopefully he'll just stop eventually. It's not a major boundary issue with me, just irritating. smile

I've decided I'm going to have to quit my second job. I just plugged in the information from my last paychecks from both jobs and tax info into a tax program to mentally prepare myself to get that done in January and found that what I made at the second job has completely screwed my taxes and I'm going to owe the federal and state governments!!!! I have no deductions other than Marc so there is no way to fix this now. frown I'm going to have to file for a payment plan with the IRS....first time ever in my life I've had this problem. If I adjusted my witholding at the second job enough to cover the difference for next year the amount I would bring home would be so pawltry it wouldn't be worth the time away from home. frown

Can't win for losing anymore can we? smile

T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!