Thanks Rabbit,
We talked last night and came to an agreement that we are both still emotionally raw and it makes sense that things are going to set us off.
I'm still miffed that he thinks I should be able to trust more easily and quickly than what I think is reasonable.
He's still miffed that I reacted so strongly.
I did apologize for what I should have... name calling and hanging up. He apologized for not understanding or validating my feelings. so, I guess that is that. We will be doing some family stuff today, so will work on a PMA and have fun.

Life goes on... part of the piecing roller coaster.