Before H left I tried to get him to understand the trauma children go through psychologically with all this. All he kept saying was that they would adapt and then be ok.
Eldest D21 keeps asking him why he's not with me and won't accept OW. Their relationship used to be extremely close but is no damaged and H continues to damage it.
All the kids miss him dreadfully and would dearly like him to come home.
Both D21 and 19 are on AD and attending counselling. So much for them adapting. In some respects I wish they were more angry with him as it would give them an emotion to work with rather than the hopelessness they currently feel.
