I went back to living well, having fun and well, just being me. The kids were doing great and it's like it didn't even phase them. GF and I slowly get back together over the last 9 months and are stronger than ever, that break was necessary for both of us, to be sure this is what we want. My house will go on the market this spring and hers after we buy another. Our kids are now included in our R and get along well. I guess I can honestly say I am content with things these days.
As for XW, I don't see much of her anymore and only hear from her when she wants me to send $$$ with the kids for food. I send nothing and tell her if she can't feed them she shouldn't see them.
I guess I post up some thoughts and stuff for the newbies here sometime later, probably very similar to my Lissies original post.
