As I lay in the ER I asked my GF to call XW to see if she wanted to take the kids during my stay, if not she would take care of them. My XW agreed and became rather distraught that I may die. My GF let her stew and didn't exactly tell her I would NOT die.
An hour or so later as I lay in the ER talking with my GF the curtain flies open and there stands XW demanding to know what is wrong with me. (They say a picture is worth a thousand words but I didn't get a pic so the description will have to suffice.) It was Mimi, remember the Drew Carey Show from years ago? She was Mimi, Mimi makeup, Mimi hair, wearing tight low rise jeans, a too short low cut shirt that didn't cover her protruding belly some hideous tall fur trimmed animal skin boots with a matching coat. She looked the part of a cartoon 70's coke addicted prostitute.
I told her to leave and she began to cry but left, or did she. A little later as I spoke with the doctor my GF pointed out to me a pair of hideous boots poking out from beneath the curtain. The doctor opened the curtain and told her to leave and she left, or did she. Around a half hour later XW throws open the curtain and begging loudly spewing at my GF in an attempt to bait her into a fight, GF stays calm says nothing and hits the security button. Security sees what's going on and just before they get the grab on my XW she says to me "Next time you get a GF get one that's pretty." Security had to lock down the ER to finally get her out of the hospital and I had to assume my GF last name to keep XW from finding me there while I was admitted.
Well I healed up and was told to lose my stress one way or another, that is to say either give her the kids and walk away or finish her so badly that she quits and walks.
So it begins................ I decided to go down fighting...........
Remember the Child tax benefit I spoke of earlier, I made a few calls and was surprised to find that I was entitled to it and that they were going to back pay me to the date of SEP, oh yes, they would also be wanting that money to be repaid to them by XW, I believe they used the word fraud.
When this hit the fan XW decided that she was going to go out in a blaze of glory, I had returned home at midnight after a few beers at a friends house to receive a call from the police that XW was on her way over to commit suicide in front of me, and would I hold her/ stop her for them if they didn't get here in time. I asked them how she was armed and they didn't know, I armed myself and waited because I knew in my gut she didn't intend to go out alone that night.
Well she didn't show up, they caught her en route and she got a trip to the mental ward and some charges out of it.
After this and a couple times of her removing the kids from school for days and going into hiding I got some orders that prevented her from this sort of thing, I slapped them on her parents as well as my XMIL had become very jealous of my R with GF and sympathetic to XW's plight.
