It doesw sound like your H may be in mlc his behavior vertainly fits and his age
the MLCer does lie a lot they usually have an affair they spend everything in sight I would keep a VERY close eye on the money dont wiah for the physical affair..they may pull him right out of the M so if you want to wait it out and he is at home I would read many of the sites here and posters to learn how to deal with MLC and at the same time work on your self IC is great many of us fins a speiritual/religious way to help us be pleasant to H cordial upbeat validate him but at the same time be aware of what is relly going on and waht he is doing especially the money bolls credit cards be there for the kids he will not be a good father during the crises the crises coulf last anywhere from 2-7 tears from what ive read My xh is out there 3 full years since the age of 40 He married OW went in debt is on unemplyment and doesnt contac tthe kids anymore this is froma man who had a sucessfull business and was a good father for all the years Ive known him, he was careful with money and never cheated until MLC Good luck to you peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
