I'm cycling ... cutter, you mentioned this to me before but wasn't altogether sure what it meant. Was reading this post today http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1897940#Post1897940 and it hit the nail on the head.

Newmama, thanks for the info you posted. A lot of it makes sense. Still hasn't killed the negative thoughts and has in fact reinforced some. Still think that W and OM will have this long term and possibly marry - gut feeling.

Off out to D's xmas concert at school so will try and perhaps post more later.

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"