Swimming against the current - PH in piecing

[Hope4us]

I'm right there with ya Pearl concerning the "rack".

Just recently I saw a picture of OM for the first time and I just thought to myself "You F'ing cheated on me with THAT"? I guess I was hoping that he'd be frickin Brad Pitt or something, but no. Frickin weasel looking POS. I showed my Admin Assist his picture and she's like "no way, he looks like a squirrel".

Don't get too hung up on her looks. I've read a couple of times in books and other websites that people affair down. Where else would they find a low life to do that with? Someone with no morals who looks like a dik (or C*nt depending on gender. And I reserve that word for only special women!) If this A person was so special, why would they go after an attached person? Because they're either only after one thing or because they can't find a real relationship so they find someone who is struggling for whatever reason and set their trap.

I would suspect the OW in your sitch is like that. And I would suspect your BF is really struggling with the ski trip also. He's probably feeling like chit because he blew it with you and he's taking you to "reclaim" the fun stuff you guys did together before. Like you probably read on my sitch about the trip to the mountains and that freaking glass. I think I'm ready to reclaim that special place W and I have loved going to our whole marriage.

Go skiing. Enjoy the time with BF. MAKE IT YOURS again!