so I have been trying NC to a degree....H text last night midnight "Hey"!....uhhggg I didn't respond then he called twice and pulled in driveway but I stuck my ground. I refuse to live in such an "unhealthy" R. I need to detach and work on me. I wonder though when we "ignore" these WAS if they get angrier and then feel pushed away even further. I know my H has said to me "thanks for pushing me away" when I have done this.