What can I do to save my marriage? Help

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TT and BR thanks. My therapist told me to call the police. I did and regretted it and tried to cancel the call, but they came anyway. She was shocked when they showed up at the door. I didn't file any report but I just talked to the officer about domestic violence. She crossed the line and she was so sorry that she did. I suppose that didn't do much for my respect there, but she said she will never hit me again.

I think there is a big driving force (OM) out there pushing for her to split. I just think why would she be so intent to destroy our family.

She has a trip planed to Phoenix to run a marathon in January. She has been planning for this before I found out. I told her that I didn't think that it was the right time to take a trip by herself but she said that she has been training for this for such a long time. She will only be gone 48 hrs. I caved and said OK. Is this the right thing to do?