Where in the world did that come from !!!

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Thanks for the quick reply bluerain.

Regarding the house, what I'm pretty much saying is that I can't sell the house even if I wanted to because of the insurance, and I don't want to anyway. I could buy her out, but then I'd be stuck with something I couldn't sell. I guess what it means is that it isn't worth anything to anyone else except me and/or W. We really did put so much time, effort & love into it that I couldn't rip her off either, even after the bombshell & 5 months of living hell.

As for getting nasty, she hasn't really been that way, in public at least. Her, me & 2 younger kids play tennis in same team on Saturdays and she turns up swanning around as if everything is normal. Don't know if it was the right thing to do or not, but the kids and I have stopped playing last few weeks and we won't be back till mid January. It was just too hard for me to be around her acting as if nothing was wrong.

I really like the Do things you can be proud of, and I'll make sure I try and do just that.

Can't wait for the DR book to turn up, have been watching Michele's UTube video's today and they have helped a lot.