My response to checking up on your new thread: - if you wanted to, you could move to "separated - now what" forum until you are actually divorcing...that's actually where I guess I should be...
- Allowing her the chance to experience the consequences of her own choices IS LOVING HER, as opposed to not being codependant, where she can blame her feelings on you. You are giving her back her life, her experiences, her emotions, without clouding them with yours. That is love. And detachment (see - I've learned a lot from you!).
