Cutter, I know you are out having fun (yay!) and I am relaxing after a fun day w/ my baby boy and grandma. But, I want to comment about your old highschool friend and how you are helping her stay friends with a man (you) and not cross that boundary.
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I ended up spending tonight talking to a highschool friend who suffered an affair. And she spent the last few years doing them on other people.She has no male friends so I said I would be her first. I gave her, her first boundary.
Sigh. Good luck with that. I mean this very kindly and sincerely. Do not be surprised when she starts to cross the boundary (after all, you are funny, smart, have health insurance and look like George Clooney!! )Seriously, she will, for the reasons I stated but also because she has lots of experience doing that in her past.
Will you be able to resist her when she does?
BTW Are you allowing yourself to get physical with other women while in NC with WW or do you consider it cheating? (I cam see either argument here)
I just think of my WH who wanted to be the one (knight in shining armor) to help OW to be more responsible and break off unhealthy relationships. I tried to explain that she was too fargone for someone to help her other than a trained specialist who can prescribe medication. But he didn't believe me and even *^%&ed her to attempt to help! sarcastic LOL
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
)Seriously, she will, for the reasons I stated but also because she has lots of experience doing that in her past.
