Hi Tridoc... I say that the second that she struck you- all bets were off. Dont let her get away with that kind of thing. Was there a record of the visit to the doc and the reason behind it? You need to document that kind of thing. No one on here wants you to rush off and get a D, but you need to be preparing yourself to protect yourself and your kids if it comes to that.

You stop doing anything that will help her. Keep up on your domestic duties, but you dont do anything to make her life easier.

Respect is going to be huge here. Treat her the way that she deserves. If she is nasty to you, dont be nasty back, but absolutely dont be nice to her.

Dont do things that will make you look like a doormat, and dont let her yell at you, if she starts to yell and get upset, tell her that you wont be spoken to like that and leave to conversation.

Like Coach said, you need to earn your respect back here.


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...