ok well, he pulls in for a few minutes and drives away, thankfully m y niece and bf get to my house, then like hr later i get a knock on my door,. its the police.

ma'am we got a strange call from your husband, wanting to check to see if you and daughter are ok to meet us at the school.

cops said it was a weird call. so it spoke with them, told them h moved out abdoneded us nov2, didnot speak to me till few days ago when he threatened to show up announced, only contact during that time has been with boundaries i set.

they asked if they could tell him something from me and i said, back off, he is causing me to much stress in my high risk pregnancy and if he cared for me or the baby that i did not want to go into labor prematurily.

so then h sends me a text msg, thanks jstar i have to find out from cops if my daughter is ok.

after he has left me numerous msgs about how he's gona show up and take daughter, no plan, no where he is taking no when she's coming, so again i am the blame of it all again. i don't really believe it, but way for h to own up to crap.

so now i have put down expectations, and he's testing them, blaming me, so still remain dark?


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline