Britt.. I'm sorry for you, girlfriend!! The New Year is what WE make of it. I'm in (to a lesser degree) the same mindset. Get THROUGH the holidays... The New Years trip is TOTAL crap behavior, as is his living as a single, in your family home. I like the idea of going to the party - Cutter's right about the intel - but, think you should be independent while there.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.