Coming up on One-Year of DB'ing...

[mindfull]

GGGGGGG:

I"m convinced. YOU are my H!

So lets get to it... your H works long hours and is on standby almost 24/7. This is his busiest time of the year. He is under constant pressure and stress. Weather conditions and driving around have worn him out. Dealing with drivers etc means he probably spends a portion of the day cussing at their stupidity and their screw ups.

Yep, YEPPPPP, Yep, Oh, YEPPPPER

Another thing he would like to do is to just CHILL OUT completely and wind down. i.e. sit back on the sofa and vegetate.

This is probably his most favorite thing in the world to do! Probably because he NEVER gets to! Last xmas break, I truly think he was in heaven because we pretty much stayed in most days, lit a fire, watched bball on tv, played board games w/kids, etc...

"H, you've been working like a dog to put food on the table lately. What say you to reaping the benefits of that? How about the two of us just shutdown and chill at home tonight? I can fix us up something simple to eat and we can relax on the sofa and hire an action movie DVD. How does that sound?"

I can do this, easily... And, I really don't care if we stay in or go out. I/We go out all the time (with kids together, me alone w/girlfriends). I'll even tolerate the action DVD. LOL

Prepare a simple meal with a good bottle of wine.

(((I'm thinkin' I could slip him a Viagara or something, eh?)))

Your D18 knows something you don't, after all where is she getting all that pocket money from

Funny, I saw D18 at the Varsity boys bball game tonight. She and the entourage (NEW alumni - LOL) were there seeing all of their old friends that were home from college. No, "Hey, Mom!" No "Hiiiii Mom!" Nothin'.... Here's what I get.... "Moooom, Where's Daaaaaaaad? I need him to tell this story.... Jake just told me he's never heard it, and Dad can only tell it. You know.... He LOVES to tell those stories." YES, SHE DOES KNOW WHAT SHE'S DOING!




So, G, I'm in!!!!! I'll let him sleep in in the am. Then, we're meeting my parents for lunch tomorrow (for my Dad's birthday). I'll let him run his errands and such in the afternoon, and then we'll see what happens tomorrow night...

I like it.