What can I do to save my marriage? Help

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Thanks Coach and Junco for your responses. I think the random acts of kindness routine was a bit too much. I need to be sincere and be myself. I am starting to exercise again but it is hard to get out the door. I feel a lot better when I do tho.

I think my new approach will be calm and indifferent. I will continue to do nice things but not go overboard. I don't want to be a doormat.

She says her life is an open book. She still doesn't think I trust her and she is sensitive about when she thinks I am checking up on her. She has an office email and phone now with her new job. I can't check those. But I am trying to not dwell on that. It really bothers her that I have a lack of trust. Who could blame me..

Thanks for the support and kind words