I've been getting compliments at minimum every other day about how much weight I've lost, how good I look and how fit I am, Mostly from the the guys I work with (male dominant job). It's a great mood lifter. I actually have heard so many comments now that I am getting accustomed to it!

The kicker was when the extremely gorgeous lady (I'm extremely attracted to) that works in my office building came up to me in the hall one day during an office B-day party, initiated conversation and kept touching my arm several times...! She knows I am separated and W wants a D.

(I've noticed other women at work have begun noticing and commenting also)

She asked me what my plans were for New Years,, I told her that I had no specific plans yet and she invited me (and to bring some friends) to a neighborhood bar to meet with her and her girlfriends!

This opens a whole new angle on my sitch,,, My goal is to reconcile with my W, Don't know if I should include start dating into my GAL... This is very tempting and I do enjoy talking with this lady... Don't know what I should do... My thoughts seem to keep drifting back to W..


DD

H50
W44
M17 yrs
S15
D11
D10
Bomb 4/09
Trial separation/moved out 9/09
Moved back in 12/29/09