sorry if I came across strong. I do understand and i just don't want you to end up where I am. I always had too high expectations and standards when dating my husband and now its to the point where he feels like he can never meet them so why should he even try. I am very sorry again if I came across too strong...its like i just wanted to strongly caution you. I know too well the bitter and angry feeling. I am about to update my stitch right now with those feelings. I have put my feelings on my husband before he turned into this man that I do not know and I wish I would've held my tongue sometimes. You have every right to feel and know what you expect from your husband but its a way to get him there while enjoying where he is now....sorry if that doesn't make sense...its the only way i could think to put it.
Last edited by 4luv; 12/19/0912:55 AM.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
