Thanks Pearl, My H was good about stuff like that before the A, so it is nice to see some of that come back. During the A he was a total a$% to me on special occasions.
I noticed you mention on Hope's thread that you have felt wary about why your BF came back, if he really loves you, etc.
Although my H makes every effort to show his sincerity and is saying the right things, I know I am going to struggle with that for awhile. For eg. one time he commented on how OW makes $30,000 less a year than me. I immediately told him if that is the reason he is home he can leave, he backed down and apologized. I know he was talking out the MANY reasons he finally woke up about what he was potentially going to do to his life, but that one really stung. I am assuming that need for reassurance lasts awhile, huh? I know my sitch is still a very new reconciliation, but I do struggle with this.
