Originally Posted By: cutterbug
Originally Posted By: g450
Originally Posted By: cutterbug
Originally Posted By: cutterbug
What where the warning signs that told you. That you two were going to spend 23 years together?


Cutterbug, Im not sure what your asking me here or how to answer that.

All I can tell you is that I loved her enough to know I wanted to spend my life with her till death do us part.

I have always believed that she meant her vows as well. But besides the promis that we made to each other I honestly thought that we had enough love for each other to last a lifetime.

I guess vows mean nothing now in this age that we live in.


You have handpicked the negatives. Balance it with the positives.


Vows are very important. Some times we lose sight of that.


Understood. And you are 100% correct.

But I do achlowledge all the possitives in our 23 years together. My Son being #1.

But the main reason behind my venting is to warn people to not overlook warning signs. Had I not been so blind in my past, I would not be in this forum today with a broken heart.


Me:48
W:55
M:22
T:23
Bomb:19Nov09
S:15Jan10
D:11Feb10
EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10
Fast track to her divorcing me