Awest, have you read "His Needs, Her Needs?" You could use his letter as the opening to another letter from you stating what you need from the marriage as well.
It could be your Marriage Constitution.
I hope the weekend goes well for you. If he totally bails, I've got an extra hockey ticket to a game about 3 hours from you.
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